#Pain

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Profiles In Personal Pain: Which One Are You and How Do You Manage It?

Profiles In Personal Pain: Which One Are You and How Do You Manage It? What’s really eating away at you? Are regrets consuming your...

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Avoid Managing Pain Like David, Solomon & Absalom

Avoid Managing Pain Like David, Solomon & Absalom This is my latest article for Law Enforcement Today I’ve been so blessed that they have...

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Policing & Personal Pain: Freedom for Healing from Your Past

I wrote this piece for Law Enforcement Today. I once contributed to this great resource from a chief of police perspective on policy and...

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Policing & Personal Pain: Freedom for Healing from Your Past

I wrote this piece for Law Enforcement Today. I once contributed to this great resource from a chief of police perspective on policy and...

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Lysa Terkeurst: The Male Response To Divorce

The News My wife shared an article about divorce with me written by Lysa Terkeurst, the founder of Proverbs 31 Ministry. We’re both big...

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Lysa Terkeurst: The Male Response

The News My wife shared an article with me written by Lysa Terkeurst, the founder of Proverbs 31 Ministry. We’re both big fans and...

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Lysa Terkeurst: The Male Response To Divorce

The News My wife shared an article about divorce with me written by Lysa Terkeurst, the founder of Proverbs 31 Ministry. We’re both big...

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Fathers and Sons: Oil and Water: Part 2 of 2

In my part 1 of this message I felt led to share the biblical experience of the father and son relationship. The intent wasn’t to suggest...

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Why Men Cheat

A few years ago while I was still serving as Chief of Police, a sergeant entered my office. He folded himself into a leather chair and...

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The Wake of Loss

The Wake of Loss The path or course of anything that has passed or preceded is known as its wake. When I thought about it I realized the...